Peristiwa yang ku hadapi beberapa hari yang lalu.. menjadi satu isu sensasi di laman yang sering ku kunjungi.. kenyataan yang ternyata benar-benar meninggalkan kesan di sanubariku.. telah ku akui pada semua yang diri ini bukannya berniat untuk menciplak cipataan penulis citer itu tersebut.. tapi ternyata kenyatan dan pengakuan ku itu.. hanya segelinter orang yang memahami dan yang selebihnya adalah memberi kutukan yang benar2 melukakan hati.. argh! siapa kah yang mengerti  hati ini? ingin ku pergi jauh meninggalkan semua.. tapi kesannya masih terasa di sanubari.. alangkah indahnya andai aku bisa seperti helang terbang setingginya dengan hala tuju yang nyata.. aku ingin bebas seperti nya.  Tapi bebaskan aku seperti yang di sangka.. yang nyatanya halangan dan rintangan pasti ada di hadapan.. entahlah pasti aku cuma berdoa aku bisa perolehi ketenangan dan ketabahan hati.. amin

Diri di selubungi kekeliruan.. siapa kah yang mengerti? apa pun segala yang berlaku telah menjadi satu pengajaran buat ku..

UNGU
Wanita yang suka warna ungu adalah:
Seorang murah hati,
Merdeka hatinya dan tidak mahu diperintah.
Penuh inisiatif,
Pandai tetapi tidak emosi,
Dingin dan kehendaknya meluap-luap,
Jarang berjaya.

HITAM
Wanita yang suka warna hitam adalah:
Seorang yang suka bermurung,
Prihatin,
Kuat menghadapi petaka apa sahaja,
Tidak mudah terpengaruh,
Setia pada suami,
Hatinya baik dan cepat tersinggung.

BIRU MUDA
Wanita yang suka warna biru muda adalah:
Seorang yang suka merendahkan diri,
Suka mengalah,
Suka berkorban peranan,
Cerdas,
Pandai dan berotak berlian.

KELABU
Wanita yang suka warna kelabu adalah:
Seorang yang suka sekali mengelamun,
Romantis,
Sabar,
Tenang tetapi hatinya suka mengembara,
Suka mengada-ngada dan gossip.

MERAH
Wanita yang suka warna merah adalah:
Seorang yang berwatak berani,
Emosional dan tegas,
Tamak serta serakah,
Tahan melarat dan suka hidup bersenang-senang.

BIRU
Wanita yang suka warna biru adalah:
Seorang yang setia paa suami,
Senang pegang wang,
Kuat kemahuan,
Berterus terang dan jujur,
Cepat memberi maaf dan tegas.

KUNING
Wanita yang suka warna kuning adalah:
Seorang yang amat menyukai ilmu,
Gemar membaca,
Tekun dan cerdas,
Tabah menghadapi cabaran.

PUTIH
Wanita yang suka warna putih adalah:
Seorang yang mempunyai perangai yang suci bersih,
Fikirannya tidak banyak prasangka,
Berkata benar, jujur dan rendah hati,
Ramah dan bersopan-santun,
Kuat menerima ilmu,
Damai dan berubah alam fikirannya,
Suka menolong dan hidup dalam bertawakal.

COKLAT
Wanita yang suka warna coklat adalah:
Seorang yang mempunyai sifat keibuan,
Suka merendah diri,
Sopan dan halus budi,
Hatinya sentiasa was-was kerana takut salah.

HIJAU
Wanita yang suka warna hijau adalah:
Seorang yang subur dan damai,
Cintakan kebahagian,
Tidak suka perang,
Patuh pada agama,
Teguh pendirian hingga kelihatan agak kolot.

Nothing wrong if non-Muslims use salam, says mufti

By ZIEMAN

Interview with the Mufti of Perlis Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin:  

Perlis Mufti Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin

He said there were non-Muslims who greeted Muslims with the salam in the proper manner and “with all honesty, that is, they truly wish us peace.” 

“Islam teaches us that an honourable greeting must be replied appropriately. Therefore, Muslims should answer such a greeting fully.” 

Dr Asri, the country’s youngest mufti, said this in a new weekly column in mstar, the Malay news portal of The Star. 

The Islamic scholar skyrocketed into the Malaysian consciousness after his bold comments last year on the need for religious authorities to stop snooping and spying on Muslims for khalwat (close proximity), urging them to look at the bigger picture and focus on the community’s more pressing problems. 

Since then, the 35-year-old mufti has expressed opinions on a range of issues, some of which have not exactly endeared him to some of his more conservative peers and segments of the public. 

In his column, Dr Asri will take questions from Muslims and non-Muslims who want to know about Islam and its application in daily life in a multi-ethnic setting. 

His views on the Muslim greeting was in response to the following question posed by a non-Muslim: 

In the Middle East, it is customary to greet people, including non-Muslims, with the salam – Assalamu ‘alaikum (meaning, “peace be upon you”) – and to reply to the greeting with the phrase, “Wa ’alaikum salam (“and upon you, peace”). However, in Malaysia, the greeting seems to be confined to Muslims. Why? 

Dr Asri said: “In Malaysia, the greeting is a cultural practice established by people in the past. It is a problem of comprehension and interpretation, which has resulted in the belief that Muslims are not allowed to answer the salam expressed by non-Muslims. 

“This has happened because of a confusion over a hadith (tradition) of the Prophet, who instructed Muslims to reply to the salam from the People of the Book (Christians and Jews) with the phrase wa ’alaika (and upon you). 

“During the time of the Prophet, non-Muslims who were hostile to Muslims sometimes cynically greeted them with assamu ‘alaikum, which means ‘destruction upon you’.  

“That is why the Prophet told Muslims to reply with wa ’alaika. The instruction contained in this hadith is not applicable in every situation.” 

Dr Asri encouraged Muslims to show that Islam projects an image of harmony and that Prophet Muhammad was sent to bring peace. “There is no problem with Islam. All this happen because of inaccurate interpretations, and we have to fix it.” 

Jam 8.20 pagi.. aku membelok masuk ke bangunan tempat kerja aku tetiba terdengar satu dentuman kuat kat belakang kerja aku uwahhh!! kereta belakang bantai buntut kereta aku.. kereta aku tercalar tapi kereta depan waja yang langar aku hancur berderai.. apa lah malang nasib aku.. dok asyik orang bantai jer ... hmmm.. nak marah pun dah tak lalu.. kereta aku cuma tercalar jer.. hmmm berapa kali dah kemalangan ni terjadi...hampeh tul!

macam tau2 ja dia ni.. messaged me 1st in d morning kunun nak ambil hati lah tu.. blah la!! ~ tak hairan la u try tu get my attention.. no feeling sudah ni.. ko  nak ambil hati aku banyak mana pun ~ hati ini dah keras lah

I feel odd today ~ serba tak kena jer rasanya ~ walau i had received lovely morning hai from my love one..  pun can't make changed my mood ~ langsung tak menggembirakan ~ i feel im dying ~  busan tul ~ i feel just to kick him off from my life.. Y ar? Apa...nak datang bulan ka?? 

dont' know what to do ~ d end aku layan otak kepala aku dengar lagu kaer izinku pergi walaupun depan mata big report have to be done by today.. kepala aku berserabut ~ can't focus to do that report.. rasa nak nanigs jer.. uhuhuhuu... feel so sick....!!! Otuuu!!! i hate u!

Izinkanku PERGI

Sinaran mata
Cerita segalanya
Duka lara terpendam
Memori semalam
Tinggal segala cinta
Tiada kembalinya
Abadi kasih kita
Kau bawa bersama
Mimpi indah mekar
Saat cinta bersemi
Sedetik asmara syurga
Selamanya

Pergilah rinduku
Hilangkan dirimu
Tak sanggup menanggung
Derita di kalbuku
Pergilah sayangku
Bangunlah semula
Semangat cintaku
Membara kerana dia
Tiada niatku

Tersemat jiwa
Setia bersamanya
Cinta murni berdua
Beribu tahunnya
Saat cinta bersemi
Sedetik asmara syurga
Selamanya

Oooohhh.. pergilah sayangku
Bermula semula
Semangat cintaku
Membara kerana dia
Tiada niatku

Maafkan daku
Duhai kasih
Izinkan ku pergi

Hi what wrong with me 2day? i drive till highway then i realised that i forgot bring my purse of coz money for sure and most important is my license and ic.. uwahhh! to turn back definitely already to late for me ~ so what i do i just drive 'selamba jer' pray that nothing will be happen for me today heheee... sabar aje ler

Syukur ke panjatkan kepadaNya, aku masih di beri peluang untuk menikmati kehidupanku di dunia ini.. apakah hikmah di sebalik kejadian awal pagi tadi, aku hampir-hampir menemui kemalangan, yang sukar ku lupakan dalam hidup ini.. sepanjangan pemanduanku dari rumah ke kerja mahupun ke mana-mana.. aku memang terlalu perihatin pasal keselamatan.. tapi entah pagi ini.. kenapa jadi begini??

Y?? its raining early in the morning, im driving as usual.. but in sudden i saw a car in front of me giving signal emergency break.. i thought.   i know im not drive that fast.. if not mistaken its only 90-100 km per hours.. odoi!! its that fast? i don't know.  in sudden im in blurred vision.. i almost loose my control.. panic!!! try to break my car but don't know what happen.. its still moving so fast and almost i going to hit the divider but try hard to avoid that but still can't control then my car goes the other left and right again and again!! im panic and almost to leave it like that bang over there and there.. but think that i have need to do something.. if not that was end of my life.

Di saat-saat cemas itu.. thank God, i know God with me always i managed to  control my car walaupun pada mulanya terlalu payah.. just imagine gaya-gaya formula 1 control they car.. nasib aku baik kerna no car behind me.. mungkin di sebabkan cuti chinese new year.. kalau tidak for sure big accident will be occur then.. odoii!!! huhuhuuuaa.. menangis dan meraung aku seketika..  aku terus berdoa kepadaNya kerana masih di beri peluang untuk terus bernafas lagi..

8.00 am im reached office safely.. Thank God im still alive.

Trisha:
Allah telah menetapkan tempoh hidup bagi setiap yang bernyawa.  Justeru, hal yang telah ditetapkan sejak azali ini, bahkan semasa ditiupkan roh ke dalam jasad kita sebelum ini, maka manusia telah ditentukan waktu bila ia akn dicabut rohnya keluar dari jasad.  Cuma bilakah waktu yang tepat, tempat yang tetap, tiada siapa yang tahu melainkan Allah semata.

Larilah ke penghujung dunia, kuncikanlah diri dalam bilik sekebal tebal mana sekalipun, pasti kita tidak dapat lari dari maut yang berkunjung.  Maut itu ada di mana-mana.  Bahkan di riwayatkan dalam satu hadith, malaikat Maut telah hafal dan kenal benar akan rupa, peribadi setiap manusia, dek kerana kerapnya berkunjung menemui manusia tanpa disedari olehnya sebanyak 70 kali setiap hari.  Maut sebenarnya datang ditentukan ajalnya oleh Alla, hanya  Allah menjadikan sebab kematian sebagai bukti kepada manusia.

Contohnya: si polan bin si polan mati kemalangan.  Sebab kematian dikatakan kemalanangan tetapi sebenarnya ajal itu telah ditentukan Allah.  Dijadikan sebab mati itu adalah kerana dunia adalah darul asbab yakni dunia ini memerlukan sebab berlakunya sesuatu.  Namun telah banyak kes kematian yang kita tidak dapat temui sebabnya, maka bukankalhAllah Maha Berkuasa?? ~ dipetik dr sumber tertentu

Hmmm.. setelah habis membaca novel CSR hasil tulisan Abg_Ramlee ni trisha menjadi teruja lalu terdetik di hati Bagaimanakah sekiranya angin mengkhabarkan insan seperti Laksamana Sunan masih wujud di luar sana? Maksud trisha di zaman ini?

Trisha membayangkan Laksamana Sunan seorang insan yang tampan yang sempurna zahir dan batinnya, keilmuannya dan kewarakannya mahupun pertuturannya ~ mendahulukan Allah dan Rasulnya ~ trisha benar-benar dibayangi keperibadian laksamana Sunan.

Trisha: by the way i just have to ask ~ where the heck are the Laksamana Sunans of today?

~Akukah Ratna Mu~

Akukah Ratna mu
yang datang menghampiri mu
kala cahaya senja
bersalut kemilau di hujung danau

Bertiuplah wahai sang bayu
kala langit menggugurkan gerimis
biarku sisipkan nyanyian rindu
mendayu memujuk rindu
lalu membuai mimpi dalam lenaku

Bicaralah wahai ombak dilautan
lagukan bait-bait puisi dari arjuna
akukah ratna mu..
yang hadir menantang bulan di wajah
merenung ke hati mu dengan cahaya senja
setiap malam diserang rindu yang resah

Bisikan rayuan seruling yang bergema
wahai daun-daun yang gemalai
bergoyang bersambut rumput-rumput melambai
sandarkan kepala ku ke hangat dadamu
mentari hampir lusuh di rambut hitam ku
katakan.. aku ini ratna mu
maka kasihku mengalir dalam setiap butir airmata yang berderai

Mengalir air di kali
umpama berdenyut nadi seorang perempuan
kasihnya dipinjam sang purnama
rindunya meniti pelangi senja
yang tinggal di uliti selendang malu
saat burung laut pulang dilambai angin senja

 Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy or absolute value.  Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing, and may also include the aspect of carring for finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state.  In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person.  Love is commonly considered impossible to define.

Love has several different meanings in the english language, from something that gives a litte pleasure to something for whcih one would die.  And in contrast to the definition at the top, frequently people use the verb love to indicate want to desire for themselves as opposed to for another.  For example ~ l love that lamp does not refer to desiring wellness for the lamp, but rather to the desire for the lamp.  The word also frequently indicates elevated appreciation or admiration ~ i love that artist, an individual might state.

Cultural differences make any universal defination of love difficult to to establish.  Expressions of love may included the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organisations:

• love for a body;
• love for nature;
• love a food;
• love of money;
• love for learning;
• love of power;
• love of fame; and
• love for the respect of others

Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive.  Love is essentially an abstract concept, easier to experience than to explain.  Many believe, as stated originally by Virgil that love conquers all, or as The Beatles, All you need is love.  Bertrand Russell descibes love as a condition of obsolute value as opposed to relative value.

Courtley love ~ a late medieval conventianlised code prescribing certain conduct and emotions for ladies and their loves.

Erotic love ~ desire characterised by sexual desires

Familial love ~ affection brokered through kinship connections, intertwined with concepts of attachment and bonding.

Free love ~  sexual relations according to choice and unrestricted by marriage.

Platonic love ~ a close relationship in which sexual desire is nonexistent or has been suppressed or sublimated.

Puppy lvoe ~ romantic affection that is not mature or not true.  The term reflects a bias that love between youngsters is somehove less valid.

Religious love ~ devotion to one's deity or theology.

Romantic love ~ affection charactersed by a mix of emotional and sexual desire.

True love ~ love without condition, motive or attachment.  Loving someone just because they are themselves, not their actions or beliefs in particular.

Unrequited love ~ affection and desire not reciprocated or returned.

1. If i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2. If i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have  a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing.
3. If i give possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i am nothing.
4. Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 
6. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always persevers.
8. Love never fails.  But where there are prophecies, they will cease, where are tongues, they will be stilled